Marriage is a beautiful thing yet others get into this institution and regret ever making that decision. Let’s consider the subsequent points to help work out or get a successful marriage;
- You Must Know Who Created You First
Acknowledging and realizing the one who created you should always come first if you want to have a successful marriage.
He (God) is the original creator of human beings including yourself. Knowing that you owe your life to Him, gives him the audacity to help make you a better person.
How can love manifest in the marriage?
Love is not a one time feeling, it is a daily conscious act: it is not a spontaneous thing, it’s a lifestyle. You’ve got to learn to love everyday because love as it is, is learnt.
Without it, forget marriage because love will make you overlook the negative aspects of your marriage yet make you satisfied and happy.
It is a burden if money is not in the marriage.
The absence of money has created so many conflicts within the confines of marriage.
You want to have your peace of mind in your Marital home? Then money should not run out of your home. Money is an integral part of having a successful marriage.
You can’t even think better if you have no money.
- Good Sex
Sex in the confines of marriage is so beautiful but it’s not enough to have just sex, it is very important to enjoy good sex.
When your partner is accustomed to enjoying good sex, bet you me your marriage will be heaven on earth. There will be constant joy, peace and increased productivity.
- Good Communication
Additionally, good communication really helps to getting a successful marriage. Communication goes beyond talking on the phone or face to face, it includes quality time maybe just mimicking, staring at each other, etc.
Man, let your scent announce your presence.
As a lady, learn to communicate with your body, gestures and dressing, certain moods and to your man. It gives the marriage a higher level of spark and comfort.
Moreover, communication works in an honest environment between couples.
Without honesty, it will be impossible for couples to please each other. You want to be trusted? Then you’ve got to be honest.
The ultimate gift in a marriage is the gift of children. A lineage is kept if children are birth to a couple.
Some may be unfortunate to make babies but it doesn’t end there, for there are many ways of making babies. You may want to adopt some so you keep your name and family for generations.
There are many other ways of building and maintaining a successful marriage. Watch out this space for more “ingredients”.